Matt Ellefson was the epitome of what it means to live a purpose-driven life. His work, words, and living example have impacted thousands of people across the world. He has left two lasting legacies: His family and SURVIVEiT.
Matt’s carefully chosen words captivated everyone in his presence. People listened to Matt, a man of meaning and integrity. He made quick, meaningful, and lasting friendships wherever he went. He was fiercely loyal to his friends, staying when others may walk away.
A fighter in every sense of the word, Matt faced his cancer diagnosis head-on, with strength, faith, focus, and fearlessness. Matt’s cancer diagnosis created an opportunity for him to become the man he was born to be. He was a fearless innovator and advocate, shepherd and faithful servant, and just simply the most inspirational guy we knew.
Matt Ellefson made “every day count” and truly felt that every day was “a great day to be alive!” He traveled the world when he felt well and mentored others facing cancer when he didn’t.
Matt believed that the best way to get through your worst of times is to help someone else get through theirs. And he lived that every single day.
His smile, his laugh, his hugs, and his outrageous stories will be deeply missed.
Papa, Pops, Rockstar, Moth, Brother, Uncle Matt, Mr. Twinkly Eyes, Son, Bestest Buddy, My Love, Matt: We are so proud of you. You’ve made us better people. We are more compassionate, generous, grateful, and brave because of you.
Rest well, Matt. You’ve been a good and faithful servant.
Matt Ellefson, of Sioux Falls, SD, was born on April 10th, 1962. He found rest in the arms of Jesus on November 29th, 2018, at the age of 56. He is survived by wife and partner, Melissa; the “big kids” Jake Ellefson (Alex) and Amanda Ellefson Bohl (Aidan); the “little kids” Caleb, Meg, and Sam Rector; granddaughters Evelyn and Bryn Bohl; grandson Henry Ellefson; and his beloved dogs, Jax and Lola.
Matt is also survived by his parents, Robert and Glenda Ellefson of Mitchell, SD; sister Nancy Ellefson of Tomball, TX; brother Max Ellefson (Sandy), of Mitchell, SD; sister Sandy Hanson (Kenny) of Spirit Lake, IA; sister Andrea Hart (Troy) of Mitchell, SD; and countless nieces, nephews, in-laws, and friends.
A Celebration of Life Service will begin at 5:00 pm on Monday, December 3, 2018 at Embrace Church, 2800 East 57th Street, Sioux Falls. The family requests no flowers and memorials be directed to SURVIVEIT or the family. Heritage Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.
